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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think OP will still not feel good about this after the August trial run and I hope she effusively thanks the ILs regardless of how it all ends up. You are playing with fire with this family relationship, OP.[/quote] I know. But I feel like the whole thing is playing with fire. I've discussed myself or DH staying home with my Mother and she feels my sister would be devastated. I've discussed with my mom brining the baby, and she feels my sister would be furious, even if we got a sitter at night. Yet asking my in laws to abide by our wishes and leave DD in daycare makes them mad. In all this DD is my first priority. But no matter what I do, I'm going to hurt a family relationship. [/quote] You need go get a spine! Do what you think is best for the baby and let everyone else have whatever their reactions are. Your job is taking care of your baby. You are not responsible for their feelings. [/quote]
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