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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your 11:37 post doesn't make your case as well as you think it does.

Your DW doesn't like your parents. We have no idea why, but it seems you've tolerated her preferences in regard to limiting their contact until now...so just let that go.

The fact that the wedding is in December makes it so much more unreasonable to expect her to attend this event. I wouldn't want to drag an unvaccinated 6w onto a plane in the winter...that's just asking for trouble.

You have to just let this go. It's not NBD. It would be a lot of effort and discomfort for your DW. Some people might do it, others might not. The fact that she doesn't like your parents is probably factoring into how much effort she wants to put into your family. That makes sense; it's not unreasonable or unfair.

TBH, your attitude is mostly coming across as pent up resentment about how much she dislikes your parents. This event is just highlighting that fact. I can't fix that problem for you, but I would suggest that you decouple addressing it from the birth of your second child if you ever want to actually fix this.[/quote]

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