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[quote=Anonymous]I'm the 10:36 2-year poster.

I would love a relationship and would make time for one, but I haven't met a guy naturally and online dating can take an enormous amount of time for an uncertain payoff.  So many of my friends have been online dating for YEARS and not found someone good yet.  It would require me literally spending every moment of free time I have away from my child, instead of spending that time working out, fulfilling my volunteer obligations, keeping my house going, seeing my friends or just having some decompression time.  I don't want to spend every spare night auditioning guys at Starbucks or the bars.

Dating in your 40's is hard when you have a kid and aren't a supermodel.  Every guy I meet is either married, attached to one of my friends, is too young for me (under 35) or there isn't an attraction there.  I had a normal dating life in my 20's and 30's, until I had my child.

I feel like you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.  If you have sex with random hookups, you're a slut and people tell you that you'll catch herpes.  If you don't have sex with random people, they imply there's something wrong with you that you can go without sex.  [/quote]

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