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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Previously single Mom here, please don't do this to yourself or your son! You both deserve so much love. You have gone on a rough road, [b]please don't accept any man as your husband that doesn't shower the two of you in love.[/b] Trust me I dated a lot of frogs. My (new) husband deeply cares for us and even though he cares about money, our well being would Trump and money issue.[/quote]

I don't think she feels comfortable being showered in love. I think she wants a mutually beneficial relationship. One where she doesn't feel threatened. I think love threatens her.

OP, you don't have to answer this, but do answer in your mind very honestly:

- Do you want to give your whole self to a man? 
- Do you want a man to give his whole self to you?
- Do you want to thrive in companionship, trust, love, affection, and an intimate sexual relationship?

- Do you fear intimacy? 
- Are you sabotaging your chances at true love because you're afraid of it or don't believe in it? Or don't think you're worthy? 
- Do you love yourself? 
- Do you love your son more than you love your own fears of intimacy?

I'm dying here. I wish you were my friend/relative so I could help protect you from a huge mistake.[/quote]

I am genuinely curious why you don’t think I want love.  Not being defensive at all. Just wondering what I said that made you think that.

I certainly want a fair amount of independence but I don’t think that comes at the expense of love. I [b]do have problems with intimacy and trust. I’ll admit that. But what divorces person doesn’t.[/b]

I have come a long way in loving and forgiving myself but it is a work in progress.[/quote]

People who heal. The divorced people who heal don’t have issues that’s blind them. See the thread about the woman devastated about her 2nd divorce.

HEAL![/quote]

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