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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, after you've read all of these responses and have given us more info, I am all the more worried about your original posting title, "Is this passive aggressive or am I being super grouchy and sensitive?"

That you don't know how to gauge this situation is very concerning to me. You have a son and an obligation to him, and to yourself, to live the best life. You know very well this guy is the wrong guy for you, yet you're convincing yourself to settle because he has some good qualities. Those good qualities won't override the hell your son is in for if you go forward with this relationship. You've spent long enough in it. [/quote]

I had this thought about your post title, too.  Who or what gave you the idea that your response to his behavior is grouchy or overly sensitive?  That's really worth thinking about.  This kind of self-doubt and not having solid expectations about how someone treats you means that you're at risk of being with someone who doesn't treat you well enough.  I'm concerned about what you've described.[/quote]

I guess my confidence isn’t what it should be.  My initial reaction is always “who the hell does he think he is” but then I start to question my reaction and he starts to put on a guilt trip about “he is just trying to be sensible and frugal and what’s wrong with that.” [b] I need to have more confidence[/b].[/quote]

What you need is more independence and less co-dependence. [/quote]

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Fix yo self! Said with lots of love. Start individual counseling it will help with your self image. And congrats on losing 70lbs as a single mom that is no small feat! Now keep up the good work and become (emotionally, mentally) healthy.[/quote]

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