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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, you still have t told us what positives he brings to your life[/quote]

In other ways he is extremely attentive and caring.  When I am sick he is by my side getting me medicine and helping out.  We do laugh a lot and enjoy similar things.

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And those characteristics will be challenged by a marriage ripe for contempt that will grow, that is already present in both of you. You can have the plus of this caring attentiveness in hires house help for less. And friendships. Marriage is a game changer. I suspect this guy is an immature, controlling mooch - if you marry him, things will get worse. If you need counseling before marriage, you have better odds starting over with someone else. Sorry OP I know that’s tough to hear and think of, but you’re on the road to signing a contract for life with someone whom you already have friction over a huge source of problems: finances, child, health. Not to mention a flippant attitude towards the things you’re doing to transform positively, that he doesn’t see value in it means he likely won’t see value in being transformative and growing in other necessary areas together as a couple later.[/quote]

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