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The only way a 60+ yr old man can get a 40 yr old woman is:

1. he has lots and lots of money
2. he is very fit and looks much younger than 60
3. the woman is very very desperate[/quote]

1.  I do NOT qualify.  No woman dates me for my money.  I can pay my own way and I'm an old school gentleman where I always pay for us if we go out to the point of insisting.  But there is no payoff here if she is looking at the long game.

2.  Not very fit but fitter than most men at my HS reunion.  That's a pretty low bar.  I'm fit enough to do anything a younger woman wants to do, including dance all night or go on a strenuous hike the next day.  Not tall either, just shy of 5'10"

3.  Desperate for what?  A good relationship?  Trust me, a lot of women are desperate for a good relationship with a decent man who can keep up with her in bed and out.  A lot of woman prefer older men and some always have.  Others have come to that preference by being disappointed in the men their age while finding what they want in an older man.  It's not my job to convince a younger woman that she should date me.  If my age is a turn-off, I don't want to be with her.  And I've said, the pool of women in their 40s who would date a man my age, considering 1. & 2. is much smaller than women closer to my age.  But it's large enough that I've done well and even dated a few women who were even younger than their 40s.  But 30s is not my target age at all.  We have to at least like most of each other's music and being younger than my children does feel strange.[/quote]

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