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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think I would get past it. The relationship has changed forever. It does not mean that it is doomed. Many other seemingly neutral things can happen in a relationship to change it. The thing that changed yours happens to really suck- an affair.

But if he is otherwise a great husband and father, stay for your kids and for yourself. You don't need the hassle of divorce, custody and all that bullshit. Your kids don't need it either.

Going forward you can be friends with your husband, and love him and have amazing sex with him. Just don't trust him too much. If he cannot accept that(and accept the fact that you will be suspicious of him going forward, let him decide what he wants to do.

Affairs don't just happen. There is either a discipline issue or the guy weighed his options and decided the risk was worth the reward. Either way it says something about him.

I would stay. However, my husband better be ready for my suspicions and steps we'd put in place to help him avoid cheating again.
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