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[quote=Anonymous]To add how to be mature in marriage here are my ways to do so,
Be attentive to him yourself, show him tenderness and tell him how much you love him. (unless you don't....)
Don't act as a victim, you don't need his permission for just about anything. ( In a healthy marriage big decisions are made together though.)
When he agrees that you COULD work part time, and that you would be losing money if working full time paying for preschool, nannies, explain to him that you understand all that, but that you need to feel that you are not in prison, that you will go crazy taking care of kids, and that is it not about money but about your mental health.
Organize evenings just for the two of you. Organize fun trips, do you go skiing? Hire a nanny for the baby and put other kids in a ski school and go have fun with him.
Support some of his "silly" hobbies, cars, sports... whatever he likes.
Now, I have to get going , but, all these that I said you should do, he should do as well. 
Also, don't think that some new hot guy won't act just the same as your DH after few years. You handle ups and down as they come. I love my DH, he loves me, yet, after 25 years he bough me a yet another chocolate cake for my birthday. His favorite chocolate cake. Every single year I tel him that I hate chocolate cakes....So, I go and buy a slice of cake I love. Am I mad for a minute? Yes, but hey, not a cross to die on.[/quote]

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