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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know why people are telling OP to 'support the lady'. By making a choice that effects both of them, she is roping him into an expense that will take at LEAST 25% of his salary for the next 18 years. But sure OP go ahead, no big deal.[/quote]

Umm the OP made the choice of having sex with a woman still capable of having children.  He could have had a vasectomy, he could date a woman past having children, he could abstain from sex.  Therefore he had 50% of the responsibility. An ex boyfriend of mine said that his dad reminded him any woman he has sex with can be the mother of his children. This is why everyone is saying he needs to support his child regardless of if the relationship with his ex.
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What a disingenuous comment.

Getting a vasectomy is generally permanent. Just because he didn't want children right now, with this particular woman, doesn't mean he doesn't want children ever.

By this logic, if someone rear ends my car, I should pay half because every time I get onto the road, I take the risk that I could get into an accident and if I don't like that, I should just stay home, or walk everywhere.[/quote]

FFS, he could have just used a condom.  OP admitted above he did not use birth control.  He is responsible.  Yes, if you put your penis in someone else, you are 50% responsible for the consequences.  Even my 13 y.o. knows that.

Your analogy reflects your misogyny.  Women are not public highways open to all travellers, and conception is not just a random accident due to one party's bad behavior. You have been permitted to participate in an intimate act, one which all parties know can have unwanted consequences that both parties are legally responsible for.[/quote]

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