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[b]I note that in the posts above there are many examples of trauma.  [/b]There is a link to a book on traumatic birth.  There are many support groups on line with thousands of women who have experienced traumatic births.  Please understand that we who have experienced them are trying to warn women that they are more common than we would all like to think so that they can make informed birth choices, and do thigns to prepare, like see a pelvic floor PT and have frank talks with doctors, get a late-term u/s,  etc.

Misplaced anger on the part of the PP?  I would not say so.  Again, people with injuries in this string have made it very clear how this has affected them.  It's hard.  [b]You need to respect that. [/b] It sounds as if you did for your friend.

[...] And would like to see a little more sisterhood, frankly.  Because this is something that affects many more people than any of us would like to think.

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Why should we? I have posted in other threads and I think this that I found my fairly straightforward c-section traumatic and that I found the experience of being cut open while awake so traumatizing that I would never again choose that. You don't seem to think my opinion or experience matters, just yours.[/quote]

I'm sorry for your experience, PP. I also found my c-section extraordinarily traumatic, and have found no one wants to hear about it. Instead, I am constantly told it is a simple surgery and no big deal. I am sorry for your pain. [/quote]

+1 my c section scarred me emotionally (...literally too!) for life. An awful awful experience; some days I cannot get those sensations out of my mind [/quote]

Was it scheduled or emergency?[/quote]

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