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[quote=Anonymous]Guess I’m not seeing the shock here. This is one of his apparently many old fashioned values.  Only you can know if it’s too old fashioned for you. It is also a reasonably common value amongst finance guys – at least the ones who marry when older – from what I recall of my NYC days.  The older guys have made a ton of money and like their lifestyle – they may want a family but do not want their life to change. They know if they marry a wife who is a professional with her own career – she’ll have some late nights, business trips, or even if not she’ll come home tired from work; they do not want to deal with these things. They throw their money around as a – if you get with me – you don’t have to worry about work; and it’s an offering that works as we can see from DCUM, there are TONS of women dying to not have to work. It’s different amongst younger finance guys bc they may be marrying a high school or college sweetheart that they sort of “grew up” with -- she’s likely shared her dreams over the years and they aren’t going to break her heart bc they don’t want to have to come straight home from work once in a while bc their wife has to work a late night.  It’s different when you’re 40 and meet the love of your life on match – you aren’t as invested in what she wants as what you want bc you don’t know her the same way.[/quote]

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