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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH did get extremely fat. I could hardly stomach having sex with him. The wonderful thing about being a heterosexual female is that you can tell your partner "You are fat lose weight and then I'll start have sex with you again". My husband didn't like my message, but he wasn't mortally wounded by reality, so he lost 80lbs and looks even better than the day we married and we now have a healthy sex life. It's nice to be married to a desireable man who is motivated to be, and remain healthy. [/quote]

No way in hell a heterosexual man could say that to his wife without utterly crushing her spirit and confidence. [/quote]

Yup, which is exactly why I'm so glad I'm a heterosexual woman. I would never ever be able to deal with the hypersensitivities of most women. Of course there are exceptions on both sides.

My DH wanted sex, i wanted the fit man i first married back in order to want to have sex.  He took that seriously, double downed and i got a man hotter and harder than the one I married. He's not complaining now.[/quote]

Did he really not make the connection between his weight gain and your lack of desire until you told him to lose weight?[/quote]

No he did not make the connection, he does not deal in smoke signals. We speak very directly to each other. Minimizes conflict and confusion.[/quote]

What will you do if your DH ever gets into a car accident or gets a serious disease that deforms his body, like losing a limb or getting a huge scar over his chest or face?[/quote]

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