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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this thread shows clear evidence of why so many marriages are terrible.

People are so mired in resentment that they can't even say "thank you"? Really?  And how do you think relationships improve?  You have to DO something and not hold back because "it isn't fair!"

For gods sake treat each other with the same level of respect that you would give a stranger. And so what if he doesn't deserve it, do it anyway.  That's how you change a dynamic, you stop worrying about what you're gonna get and you do what you need to do to be the kind of person you want to be![/quote]

Thank you for your post.  :roll:

See how stupid that is to thank people for every mundane thing they do. [/quote]

I will give you some credit for this.  I took a seminar once about being efficient and the guy said to not send an email that simply says "thank you," so I rarely do.  If someone sent me something that I had requested, then I will make an effort to say something more than just a thanks, but I personally delete any email saying only "thanks/thank you" immediately and am more annoyed that I had to delete it than I am happy to have received it.  However, I think in real life, it's different.  Also, if I sent someone at work things all the time and they never responded, I might stop sending them things, so I'm not saying to never email a thanks, just don't do it every single time someone write something.[/quote]

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