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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]ughhhh she took him back. Post back when he ruins your credit and you're headed for divorce so we can say we told you so. [/quote]
Op here. I did not take him back. I packed up all of his stuff (except for a few items that I'm choosing to keep!). I don't know where he's staying right now, but he is picking up everything  this weekend (7/15). I can't live with or have a future with a liar. I thought about taking him back, we met up and talked for 3hrs. I found out a lot of other stuff (abusive childhood, has always felt inferior to other people), but it still doesn't excuse the lying and making up stuff to perpetuate the lie.  If he would have come clean sometime during the first 6 months, I would fee different. Almost 3 years later, no, it's too late.[/quote]

I'm sorry you had to go through this but sounds like you got some key information.  Did he even apologize or empathize how you might be feeling? That would be the only way I'd consider getting comfortable with anything - a lie he had to just keep going with....   What was he planning to do once you were both married and sharing properties?

ANyhow, sounds like he added a bunch of other weirdo stories to the mix so might be too much baggage for most of us. 
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