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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Op here. I did not take him back. I packed up all of his stuff (except for a few items that I'm choosing to keep!). I don't know where he's staying right now, but he is picking up everything this weekend (7/15). I can't live with or have a future with a liar. I thought about taking him back, we met up and talked for 3hrs. I found out a lot of other stuff (abusive childhood, has always felt inferior to other people), but it still doesn't excuse the lying and making up stuff to perpetuate the lie. If he would have come clean sometime during the first 6 months, I would fee different. Almost 3 years later, no, it's too late.[/quote]

OP, it is so very clear from this update that you did the absolute right thing.  Putting the lying aside, the fact that this man was about to marry you and kept such significant aspects of his life a secret from you (abusive childhood, inferiority complex) speaks volumes about how disastrous of a marriage this would have been.

I don't know you, but am very happy that you decided to end it.  Honestly, I wasn't expecting it since it takes such a strong woman to do that so close to a wedding date.  Congratulations! :thumbup: [/quote]

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