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[quote=ddintysons][quote]Wow. Do really consider another person's kids baggage?

Do you have kids now? Are they baggage?

Not PP, but you say this in a way that makes me think you're trying to [b]make the PP feel like a huge a-hole[/b]. Considering kids as baggage is a completely valid and reasonable opinion. Aside from the care and consideration you have to take to plan around the actual children and provide for them, there's a likelihood of dealing with some kind of ex drama. That other person is always going to be in your life. It'll never just be your little family. Maybe they're the jealous type and they will make it difficult for you to be in the children's lives or to be a stepparent. Maybe they still have feelings. Maybe the in laws are going to constantly be comparing you two. It's completely fine to NOT want to risk dealing with all that.[/quote]

Both you and the prior poster are huge a$$holes.  The fact you would call another person's children "baggage" is disgusting.

Neither of you answered the question about having kids now.  I hope not.  Your level of entitlement is so shocking you have no business being a parent, step or otherwise.

How do you deal with the widowers and widows you know who are parents?  You appear so self-centered it is unlikely you would ever feel any type of empathic awareness regarding someone who lost a spouse and was left a single parent.  However, please try to think away to refer to their children as something other than baggage.

You don't want to date a single parent.  Fine.  Call someone's child "baggage" and get called out for the complete a$$hat you are.[/quote]

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