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Reply to "Would you admit you have a child on the first date?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I may be in the minority, but it seems to me that in this case, the onus does not lie on OP to have disclosed ahead of this date that she has a kid, since this guy asked her out without finding out much about her-- ....[/quote] But what if he asked "are you married?" and she just shook her head? Or answered, "no"? The way she's so evasive (I would say dishonest) suggests that she wouldn't have offered the info when I think most people would have said something more like "I was, but not anymore..." or "nah, I haven't had time to get married because I was pretty busy until now raising my daughter". If she said she was married before, then I think it's on him to ask how long they were married, in which case that would be the time to say how many years and that her daughter was born on year whatever. But if she just said she wasn't married, people would naturally assume that she was single with no children, even if she's not young. [/quote]
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