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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The Crux of this problem is that people don't do things they don't give a shit about... making a chore chart doesn't make your dh give a shit...it will probably just build resentment...the key is to get you dh to give a shit enough to do some of the tasks, the do the test yourself or let them go. You have to be prepared that when he finally starts to give a shit he won't do it the same way u do, you have to let it be.[/quote] Sounds like OP is open to dropping some of the items on the list per her statement that they will be evaluating how important each item is. [/quote] This is OP. Yes, I am prepared to accept that he doesn't think dusting is a real thing, so if I want that done (in between monthly visits from our cleaning person) I need to do it. That's fine. Luckily he is not a psychopath so he would not claim that, i.e., he doesn't give a shit if nobody make the kids' medical appointments.[/quote]
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