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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We talked again, she said it just hit her that she really wants another baby. She's not seeing anyone other than me and she thinks we need to stop grieving over our lost loves and move on with our lives because life is too short. She also gave me an ultimatum and said I have a week to propose to her or she's out. I told her I can't make that hasty decision in such a short amount of time and I have to think about my daughter just like she does. I told her if that's not good enough then maybe we should end things. She said we'll revisit this discussion again next week. [/quote]

So my father died suddenly while my younger sibling was still in high school and what you are describing is my nightmare scenario if my mom started dating again. First, you can't rush someone else's grieving process. Second, don't you and your daughter deserve more than just "I want to have a baby and you happen to be the only dude I'm dating now?"  Third, a divorce is so different than losing a spouse I can't even believe she would treat them like equivalents.

Finally, just to be realistic it is very rare for people to love their stepchildren as much as their own children. The fact that she is giving you only a week to make a decision that so greatly impacts your daughter to be brutally honest does not suggest she will be one of those people. [/quote]

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