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Reply to "Girlfriend is demanding that we get married and have a baby ASAP"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's OK to also tell her what YOU feel/need/want. If the answer is, "I love you but I'm just not ready", that's OK. Her choice to wait or not. I'd tell her I need (x amount of time - another year?) and that you promise a definite answer at that time. She's made her goals clear, don't string her along once you figure out (if you figure out) that it's not what you want.[/quote] Generally I agree, but another year?! That's cruel at their ages. [b]OP should know whether he wants to get married again, whether he wants more kids,[/b] and generally whether he wants it to be with her. Maybe another few months to work that out and communicate it, but if I were her and OP was being wishy washy and not taking me seriously I'd be on my way out. [/quote] His wife died, fairly recently, you nitwit. Try to look at this from all perspectives before spouting off nonsense. [/quote]
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