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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Time for him to take a week of vacation to stay at home with toddler while you go visit friends/family. You can Skype every night to see how clean the house is. [/quote]

Um no. The trade is that OP should start working and commuting and her husband can stay at home with the kids and clean.[/quote]

Seriously. Only a lazy SAHM would suggest the former.  Hello - options are not vacation or sit  on arse at home and complain about working spouse.  ?[/quote]

Commuting and being out of town are two entirely different things. He travels out of town more than half the month. White gloving the house after skipping out is unsupportive. Also, we have no idea if he is complaining  about normal messes she should be handling or getting OCD about details. It's really hard to deep clean when you're on 24/7 with no breaks. If it's dishes and regular tidying that def needs to be addressed. In a conversation, not silent seething. Having these two swap duties for awhile might help both understand the others perspective. [/quote]

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