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[quote=Anonymous]For years, I've been hiding credit card debt from my husband. It snowballed this year when he lost his job and I've been the sole breadwinner since January. It's now $30k. I know I'll get flamed for this because it is a horrible thing to do to someone. I have been stressed out about this for as long as I can remember and have been trying to find a way to tell him, but he is not easy to talk to when something has gone wrong. He loses his temper.

Anyway, yesterday he found out about $15k of the debt and he was furious and is now just very quiet. He feels betrayed and is questioning who I am. I have to tell him about the other $15k, and I'm afraid that it will be the straw that makes him leave me. The thing is, we can pay it off. I make $200k and we don't have other debts other than mortgage. We have savings, 401k, etc. Or we could get a loan to pay it off at lower interest. We have financial options. The problem is how deceptive I was.

I don't know what to do. Don't know what to say to him.[/quote]

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