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Reply to "Have your views on monogamy changed since you have been married?"
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[quote=Anonymous]No, my views on monogamy haven't changed. I spent a summer working in NYC away from my husband, although I spent every weekend with him. I was attracted to one man in my office. I was hit on by another. I saw many attractive men in NYC and could easily have slept around. I even thought about it but conciously decided not to. My belief has always been that it is normal to be attracted to people, but intimacy is a conscious decision. I expected monogamy in my relationship, and gave it to my husband. I subsequently found out that my husband had been cheating on me with a variety of women during the entire 5 years of our relationship. My views on monogamy are the same as they were before this experience. We all experience temptations, but it is not hard to be monogamous. It is simply a choice. I gave my husband my fidelity and honesty and in return he gave me neither. His choice spoke deeply about his character. We are no longer together. [/quote]
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