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[quote=Anonymous]My views have kind of evolved in the sense that if my husband broke that promise, I will not divorce him for that sole reason. When we got married, cheating was an absolute deal breaker for both of us. It no longer is, but my husband does not know that.

I am very happily married to my DH. I do not know a single man or woman that I could be happily married to(and I know a lot of people). I know only one other man I consider a great husband, but he is not my type physically. The numbers are not looking good, so I feel like my DH is  a once in a life time opportunity for me.

There is no way I am letting my husband go if he cheats. If he says he is sorry, I will forgive him without giving it a thought. However, if he wanted to leave, I will let him go without a fight. I do not want to be married to someone who does not want to be married to me.

To be honest, if we lived in a vacuum, we will probably have threesomes(2 women) because I know he used to fantasize about those when  we were younger. But we are both afraid to try something like that because of the societal implications if a fourth person found out. Where do you find a most secretive third party? If our parents ever found something like that out, oh my goodness...

As for me, I have never thought about cheating or sleeping with anybody else. [/quote]

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