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[quote=Anonymous]Both. Males see them as synonyms. Men and women are wired differently. If you knew that everything in your relationship would improve if you had sex every other night and once a month, got the kids out of the house and did something a little ouside the comfort zone, ie, fulfilled a fantasy (yours or his, maybe alternate), would that change your outlook on sex?

Just like him doing little things around the house without you having to nag gives you joy, him not having to beg for sex and getting to feel desired and wanted gives him joy.

There was a thread in here not too long ago about DHs being too "hands on" with their DWs (unwanted surprise groping). There is a reason you will never see a DH start a thread like that (2 reasons: they love it and not many DWs do it). Want to throw DH off his game, some day when you know it's safe (no kids to interrupt), when he walks through the door, greet him in what appears to be the usual fashion but instead of the peck, kiss him passionately with tongue while placing your hand on his package. Undo his pants and drop down and devour him like a dessert you've been craving. Pause to look up and catch his eyes and marvel at the look you are receiving. Let him find something special on underneath your usual outfit or maybe nothing at all, just to let him know you've been thinking about this and him all day. When he asks "what brought this on?" don't be hurt, just smile and tell him you've been thinking about him all day. That gesture will have rocked his world and make him feel like the luckiest man on the planet.[/quote]

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