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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He does not want to leave earlier from work to attend an event at our DS elementary school. The event is organized by the math team. They will informed how they teach math nowadays and there will be some math activities. It seems he wants me to be overloaded with everything related to our son's education because I'm SAHM and he can do whatever he wants. Every time I ask him to do something he starts an argument and does not want to listen. I need advice on how to proceed. 
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Sirens, OP. You are in the process of completely screwing up your marriage and your kids' life. Listen. You are home full-time. So, absent a compelling need, work is going to come first for your husband because he needs to stay gainfully employed. I don't know if you know this, but it's brutal out there and while I think it's great when my husband is able to make events, I don't expect him to show up to things like this. Because, let's be serious. Who's going to be supervising the homework? You. You need to know this. So, while it's a useful and important thing for you, any normal person who is working and has a full-time parent at home during the time window when homework is being done and think, "well, they got it covered. I am going to save my capital for things like a winter concert or something else."

I think the worst thing is the thread title. It's just so aggressive. He's not an asshole for not going to this because he is working. I mean, it would be different if he was going to the bar or doing something that didn't actually involve bringing money in to pay the bills.

I don't know, OP. I'd say you're in the wrong for framing it this way and if he's yelling at you, he's in the wrong for losing his temper. It's a stupid, nonsense, contrived fight that honestly didn't need to happen. Is this the hill you want your marriage to die on?[/quote]

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