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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound like a loser. If you really love your kids, fight for more custody! [/quote]

:roll: Takes one to know one.[/quote]

I'm not that poster and wouldn't call him a loser but she is right. Fight for your kids. Take out a loan and get a good lawyer. Go at it solo if you need to. Document everything!!!! Text, phone logs, emails, voice mail, etc[/quote]

You and the loser commenter are forgetting that, for whatever reason, the kids don't want to stop living with their mother.  I agree her behavior is abusive, but changing the situation against the will of the kids will only create more problems.

The mother is making an emotional mess of her relationship with her kids and that's going to bite her in the ass down the road.  But to avoid making an emotional mess of the kids themselves, dad needs to create a safe space for them, one that doesn't involve his own agenda for custody.  He'll probably get it eventually, but that should be with the kids believing that it's in their best interest, not some other factor they can't control.[/quote]

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