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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - thanks to all.  My DH is pretty private, and we seldom make decisions together.  He usually wants to process things internally, so most of our talk is me raising things and him talking about the news.  [/quote]

I think that if that's how it's been for a while then you can't dramatically change it. Work on one thing that's important. Like you will spend 15 min at dinner talking about next months plans etc. 
we are both planners and schedulers so we put everything in the calendar and talk it over. We also sit down and plan house projects and budget for those. We have dinner together almost every night and often shower together after baby goes to bed. No tv after dinner unless it's something silly on the iPad right before bed. Just no time. We do chores like hard work together as well post baby sleep time. We spend a lot of time together at home since we both WOH and miss each other. It helps that we are both talkers (if you couldn't tell by this novel I wrote here) , not extroverts just like to go on and on about things. I usually have to refocus the conversation to the mundane matter we need to sort out as it veers into crazy stuff. [/quote]

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