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[quote=Anonymous]You can just flat out say to the 5 yr old "Grandma is obsessed with looks. We are NOT. We value how much we can respect ourselves and others and if we're honest, kind people who try hard. We can still love Grandma even though we have different values than her. Because it's okay to love people who are different from us." Then just remind her of this each time she's about to see Grandma. And tell your mom to shut up about your kids appearances. Tell her "Your harping on my appearance led to my eating disorder in college. These are MY kids. So cut out the comments." [/quote]
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