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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Call the therapist first and express your feelings. My H is in therapy for abuse and we never discuss details of the abuse. We discuss his behavior and how to support the change in his behavior. For example, he is controlling. I understand now why he is controlling. I have been given ways of bring to his attention and he is learning to not get angry when I won't let him control me. [/quote] Thank you this advice is actually helpful.[/quote] I am happy that my post was helpful. There is very little research on men who were abused and almost no support for their wives. I just read allies in healing, https://www.amazon.com/Allies-Healing-Person-Sexually-Abused/dp/0060968834 it was a little helpful. I skimmed through the unhelpful parts. Hugs, we are pretty alone in our situation.[/quote]
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