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[quote=Anonymous]I just don't understand why anyone in a union would choose this set up, and if you say kids, I still don't get it!?! How does one not become a "shell" of their form self when this dynamic starts to play out and how does one remain a decent parent? I know myself well enough to say that if I were in this situation I could NOT be the best parent to my children. If you sit back and just let it continue you are giving one another permission to carry on like this forever really. Are you asexual? Do you have low drive? I am just trying to understand a man who is 40 is fine with saying they will live w/ no sex for the rest of their life? Can you elaborate on that? Also, you say you won't divorce because of the kids....okay, so after the kids leave the nest, are you planning to stay w/ a person that you don't even want to be in the same room at this point, god only knows how you will feel about her in another 10+ years...I don't know how old your kids are. Do you think you are being a "better person" for waiting until the kids are older to divorce? [/quote]

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