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Reply to "How did you work towards having a good co-parenting relationship with your ex?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I don't know what your background is here. But I will tell you why my parents never had a good relationship as co-parents. My mom was very blase about her affair, she would often say that it's all in the past and criticize my dad for not being more friendly to the man she cheated on him with. Her desire to avoid confronting the consequences of her choices and rebuilding the relationship and trust have really held it back. She was very dismissive of the idea that yes, my father was not a very good husband, but she had some apologizing to do. You seem to be trying to waive away and equalize the hurt and anger, as of its just a happenstance rather than the result of peoples choices. As if it's equally unimportant and unjustified for both, when that may not be the case. I think you should ask yourself if a more direct acknowledgement of the reasons for the hurt and anger would help. [/quote]
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