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[quote=Anonymous]Do you really (honestly) find the cheerleader/teenager thing [b]repulsive[/b], or is it just so deeply upsetting and threatening that it's easiest to deflect (and project) all of your discomfort onto you husband by treating him as repulsive and sex-shaming him.  You could say that play involving..waste or animals or blood...is "repulsive", but - assuming he's talking about post-pubescent girls, ie, sexually (if not emotionally) mature - is it really "repulsive"...because that's pretty much inside the 99% "normal" (commonly shared) het male wheelhouse.

You sound awful.  I can't imagine how awful it would be for him to have a genuinely - like maybe 1.5 std.dev. off of completely average - freaky fantasy.

As the PP said, you shouldn't actually do or feel obligated to do anything you aren't completely comfortable with, but you should spend a little time introspecting on exactly what it is about his extraordinarily common "fantasy" that makes you so uncomfortable.  [/quote]

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