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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes I do all the time. My instantaneous reaction when attacked or accused of something is to take the blame and assume I'm in the wrong. It's usually only afterwards when I'm not reacting emotionally that I realize "WTF, I wasn't to blame for this crap!" I've found the best way to deal is to a) not respond at all immediately and instead gather as much information as possible so I can go think on it on my own or b) communicate in writing so I don't have to respond immediately and can collect my thoughts as I go with each response.[/quote] I'm like this too! I do put things in writing now, to process, but rarely to communicate to the other person. But that anger that comes too late often gets displaced onto something else. Not productive, I know.[/quote]
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