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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He really is a wonderful guy, and I wish I had married him the first time around.

PP, he didn't come back to me like a back up, we sort of just found each other again  by chance and went from there.

Even still I think you are right that no matter what I have to let him go.[/quote]

Hm this guy does a lot of back and forth. Personally I think if him and the mom want to try again they should keep it completely secret from the kid. For him to think they're getting back together and then they don't would be beyond cruel. [/quote]

It seems worse than it is.

we were originally together for over a year and we , mainly me, were young and dumb and couldn't  come together on some logistics. We  didn't stay in touch and only got back into contact with each other randomly.

As for his ex I don't have a high opinion of her so it's not really fair for me to speak on her.

I can say he has always been respectful towards her, and I know he loves his little boy and will do anything  for him.

It's not really my place to tell them how to conduct themselves with their kid I'm sure they can work that out.

I'm very confused right now.

I'm really angry at his ex and I know that's not fair and totally selfish.

I also hate myself for being stupid and not realizing what I had  years ago.[/quote]

Oh no, OP - don't do that to yourself. It wasn't right back then, for whatever reason - as you said, you were young. There's not a person alive who doesn't look back on choices we made when we were young and shake our heads, but it's just not possible to understand then what we understand now. And it may have not even worked out back then because things were different.

What I'm saying is, please don't hate yourself. This isn't something you good have foreseen.

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