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[quote=Anonymous]Husband and I are about to begin therapy for the third time. This is the last shot for our relationship - I just caught him cheating, he's copped to porn addiction and admits to alcohol addiction, as well as acknowledging being controlling and verbally/emotionally abusive. Aside from the cheating, these are not new issues. The last two times in counseling - particularly the last one - were incredibly frustrating to me and felt inane. It seemed that all the counsellors wanted to focus on were communication techniques. To me, that misses the point. How can I ensure that this new therapist gets to the root of the issues instead of rehearsing how to argue using "I" phrases? [/quote]
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