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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I''m sorry OP that you are dealing with this very difficult situation. Have you considered that his behavior is emotional abuse? If not you should really start thinking about how he is purposefully inflicting inflicting this pain on you. You should discuss this in counseling to help your husband understand he is participating in the culture of abuse and he should STOP IT. You dont have to take his abuse. Be strong to leave and find someone that will treat you like the queen you are! You deserve to be treasured and not abused![/quote]

I think this is facetious, right? (It's the internet so one can never be entirely sure). :lol: [/quote]

I can see how you might think this is an over reaction, but my emotionally abusive H does this kind of thing all the time. It completely invalidates her feelings. She's the injured party and it sounds like by the end of the conversation it's all been turned around and she's the bad guy - too sensitive, forcing him to agree with her, etc. My H would get angry after this kind of conversation and I would be the one apologizing. It's really messed up. It's a very subtle type of abuse and had to explain to others or sometimes even see it yourself.

OP I would talk to you therapist(s) about emotionally manipulative personality types (narcissists, etc.). [/quote]

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