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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's just that it's a new situation. We don't actually know the family that well. We are neighbors and the kids had a play date to get to know eachother. She says things like: I have that feeling again, I don't know why, I just want you to take me. -OP[/quote] [b]Ask her more pointed questions about the carpool, just to make sure there is nothing untoward.[/b] And if it seems all fine, then continue with it. As someone with anxiety, I wish my parents had done more to talk me into new things.[/quote] This definitely. But I don't think you need to "insist" or talk her into anything. Just listen so she can express herself. Help her maintain perspective, e.g., she may feel anxious b/c she doesn't know the kids well or b/c it's a crowded space. You can remind her that it's only for a short time of the day and will end with camp. Ask her to brainstorm ways on how she can feel more calm or pass the time.[/quote]
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