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[quote=Anonymous]I have been that person in the past, though I can always be convinced to take a break...but my threshold for working/planning/keep on going/make every second matter is higher than most people's. My spouse and I have struggled because of it, but if it weren't that, it would be something else to struggle over. And I have relaxed a little over the years. And it's never been the cause of splitting up or even coming close to that. And for me it was always about meeting my own high expectations of myself, proving something. Proving my value in ways because I couldn't control other things I didn't like about me. Hefty goals and plans made me feel good. Show them that relaxing and being present can help them fulfill goals too. No experience with not wanting to face my own thoughts. I mean that's pretty messy...if that's the reason I think you'll need them to dig deep before you keep going on together...[/quote]
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