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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm 30. I'm not a fan of when guys treat women like they are "precious things". Holding car doors is one of those (IMO others doors should be held by anyone for anyone).  I have a lot of friends with similar thoughts. We all grew up more Northern   wonder if some of these guys have dealt with more women like us and that's part of it. [/quote]

OP here: Thanks for your honest, respectful reply. I agree that part of it is that many women don't like it...and guys have been criticized for such behavior.

That's kind of why I wonder if it's better to tell them you prefer it. I'm not sure.

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Pp here. Yes I think it's best to tell. I imagine it is hard being a guy and not being sure what might offend someone or not.  If you otherwise like a guy, I see nothing wrong with being direct and telling them that you like it when guys hold car doors. If a guy is annoyed by it, not someone you'd want to date anyways.

Now I wouldn't say this on the first date because many guys would mistake you for being high maintenance.

The other thing is that if this turns you off to the point you completely lose interest, you might need to ease up a little because you'll be eliminating otherwise very nice guys. [/quote]

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