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[quote=Anonymous]What a pos this guy is, but I have to say I was with a guy like this.  When someone keeps beating you down after awhile you start to believe it. I can only suggest at this point take back control. Get yourself healthy, diet, mind, exercise so your thinking is spot on.

You can't erase the past so it's imperative that you try to stop dwelling on it.  You could divorce him and maybe someday have another child with a real partner.

I went through something similar. The guy I was with started to get abusive quickly, little things at first.  Then I grew suspicious because he wasn't coming home after work until 2-3 hours later without an explanation.  Long story, he was cheating on me and made a vague statement that he hoped I would be ok...meaning he was planning to leave.   He was stringing me along, and using me.

When I told him I was pregnant he didn't take the news well. (kodak moment)  His true colors came out because instead of being happy about our future  he threatened me and same stuff about the abortion.  Basically I laughed in his face, and told him his stuff would be moved to a storage facility and I would give him a key, LOL.  And that my lawyer would be in contact with him for birthing costs, insurance, and child support.   I didn't bother to tell him I knew all along he was cheating, and his lies about us getting married etc. were just that.

My reaction was to put myself first and my goals, it all worked out and my life is great.  I can only encourage you to do that same, and if you need therapy try it but I would get out of there pretty quick if I were you and do not argue with him. If he get's mad, leave the house or room.  He can have his tantrum on his own.  [/quote]

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