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Reply to "Wife Needs to Stop Dumping All Her Emotional Negativity on Me. It's Killing My Love for Her"
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[quote=Anonymous]Hmm. If you are shutting down when she tries to share her problems, maybe she feels like you aren't really hearing her or giving her the help/advice she needs. When she tells you about an issue with your kids, do you help her think about ways to solve it? Do you give her suggestions on how to deal with her work problems? What you see as "dumping" might be her asking for your help, and if you're basically ignoring her and shutting down, it's not surprising that she brings up the same issues again and again.[/quote]
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