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[quote=Anonymous]This isn't OCD, ocd is aimed at one's self. This is narcissistic where he feels he knows what is best for everyone based on his own beliefs and if you don't do what he wants he will verbally attack or withdraw or somehow punish you. He wants to control everyone and everything to match his ideals of what he believes himself to be. Unfortunately there is no winning in this situation. I would try not doing ANYTHING he wants for a week or two and see how responds. Don't engage or argue, just say "oh I'm not doing that anymore but feel free to do it if you like." Don't debate. Just say, "I don't want to." See how he reacts. He may back down or he may ratchet things up, in which case I would think about getting therapy on my own to deal with him or seeing a lawyer. [/quote]
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