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[quote=Anonymous]All of the cliche stuff...talking about our relationship, him telling me that he loves me (particularly when I am mad), talking about each other's problems, him having my back in a disagreement with a family member, him actively helping to solve my problems (this is where him doing chores comes in).

Sex does not really make me feel connected to my husband.  I know that we just feel really differently about it.  It is much more emotional for him, and much more biological for me.  Like, if we don't have sex for a while, it hurts his *feelings.*  I just feel like I want to have sex.  Like if I haven't eaten a food I really like in a while, I start thinking about it.  And while I enjoy having sex/eating that food...I don't feel lonely or bad about myself if I don't get it.

Things that make me start thinking about sex are anything that makes me want to have more babies (with him).  I don't actually want any more babies, but some things make that feeling pop up.  And some things make that feeling never pop up.  This is why I think that some women who love being pregnant/having babies, want to have sex all of the time post partum.  While other women who aren't really fond of that stage aren't really interested for a few years, but maybe are again later when the kids get to a more enjoyable age.  [/quote]

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