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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH's family has a lot of drama and there is a lot if toxic stuff that we don't want our kids subjected to. They think we don't see them as a family because of me, but he wants to keep the kids away from them too. He still sees them on his own, but he has stopped giving them handouts and as soon as they get nasty he leaves. I'm not thrilled that I have to be the bad guy, but if they knew the truth they'd be livid with him and he would have no relationship with them and he does still want to see them so he makes it about me. It works. I have a great husband otherwise and we all have our quirks and faults.[/quote] +1 This is us, too. DH takes his family in limited doses. The IL's dynamic is unhealthy, and DH knows it. My extended family is very warm, welcoming and inclusive to DH, so he is grateful (I am too!). [/quote]
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