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[quote=Anonymous]My dh's exwife cheated on him. No kids. He found out and ended the marriage. Problem is that he did no therapy to uncover what his role in the demise of the marriage was (there were lots of other problems and he says the cheating gave him the excuse he needed to end it). We married a few years later and 15 years and two kids later I almost walked out on him. He plays the victim really well and does everything to protect his own feelings, including emotionally abandoning me. The last few years have been awful. We went to couples counseling for a solid year and while I also went to individual counseling he refused to go. Things have changed just enough for me to stay because of young kids, but I do not feel cherished or adored, even if he says he feels both. He may feel it but it is more important to protect his feelings than to let them out and really connect. I have asked repeatedly for him to tell me what I did wrong and how I've hurt him so that I can be a better spouse but I have yet to get an answer.

Things were not like this when we married. We were madly in love. The whole thing is depressing.[/quote]

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