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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I love my mother, but she is nearly everything you describe. I love her because: 1. She loves me. 2. I understand that she has mental illness as well as neglected and abusive childhood, unleavened by any great intelligence and self-awareness. She has an anxiety disorder, very low self-esteem, and is extremely self-absorbed as a result of a chronic physical illness she developed as a young adult. That love cannot translate to a relationship of trust, however. It has taken me years to understand that just because someone loves you and wants the best for you, it doesn't mean that they won't actively try to tear you down. How crazy is that? Yet it's true. So my solution is limiting contact, and living far away from her, across the Atlantic. [/quote] PP (15:15) again-I understand all of this, too. Unfortunately, though, I don't live that far from my mother. It's so screwed up.[/quote]
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