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[quote=Anonymous]... So now she's changing her will to make me the executor.

My mom lives in a foreign country, and my brother lives in her neighbourhood. I live here in the US.  My mom no longer trusts my brother because 1) he's an asshole and she's finally seeing the light and 2) he literally told her he would put her in a home. My mom is 62.

My brother thinks he's the executor of her will and this is going to cause huge drama. I don't want drama and don't particularly want this job, because I live so far away.

How hard is it to be an executor? My mom basically told me she no longer trusts me brother.

A little background- I was home a few months ago and broke down in a restaurant, crying over my salad because I told my mom I worried about her living alone. I lost my dad when I was young and I worry all the time something will happen to my mom. She lives alone with her little dogs and doesn't have a lot of friends, and my brother only calls her when he wants money or a babysitter. I basically begged my mom to apply for a greencard so I could take care of her when she gets older. My mom decided to talk to my brother about things and he told her without any care or emotion that he expects that she'll be living in a home in 10 years. My mom said she was contrasting my brothers comments with mine, and decided she doesn't trust him anymore. My brother has also borrowed hundreds of thousands of dollars from my mom and never replaid even $1.

So now my mom wants me to be the executor. How hard is this when I don't live in their country? I wish my brother wasn't such a selfish asshole. [/quote]

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