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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old is your mom? How is her physical and mental health? Is she resilient enough to cope with the news if it's given? I wouldn't get into the sordid details of the abuse. My experience with similar situations is that mom probably won't be able to bring herself to believe it anyway. "I am uncomfortable participating in John's care because there were times during my childhood when he was unkind, inappropriate, and even abusive to me. No, I have no interest in reliving the details of what that means. Bottom line, I love you very much mom and I am here to support YOU during this difficult time. But I am not willing to (X Y Z) with John." Repeat the last two sentences as necessary. [/quote] Good advice.[/quote]
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